Yesterday and today I have been gathering paperwork to take to the library to make copies; marriage certificate, Don's DD214, Med Power of Attorney, etc. Also doing up a list of all doctors, clinics and hospitals that he's been to in the past 10 yrs. On Wednesday we have an appointment with the VFW specialist who will initiate a claim, on Don's behalf, to the VA for Vietnam veterans. I know this will end up being very time consuming and tedious but if Don can get some benefits to ease his quality of life then it will be worth it.
This afternoon Don called me into his office where he had been attempting to organize the bills and budget. I have only seen my DH actually cry 2 times in the 48 years that I've known him. But he told me he just can't do it anymore because he can't think or concentrate long enough to follow even one billing statement. It was such an emotional time for both of us. Don has always been so organized and taken such pride in staying on top of the budget/bills. And...believe me when I say, this is not something I enjoy but will now have to do. This will be a strain for me but once I get my head around it all I know I'll be fine. BUT...I think it's time for me to call the Area Agency on Aging to see if there are any benefits that could help me with the housecleaning or yard work.
I can't continue this way.
Caregivers around the world have to make adjustments each and every day. Sometimes there is help out there that eases the strain and stress. At some point we have to admit we can't do everything.
Lord, help us to make our decisions and to know when and how to use our energies. Your Blessings give us the strength to continue on Your path and know that You are always beside us. Please continue to hold us in your loving arms. Guide the healthcare workers to know their capabilities and to reach out when needed so they may better serve Don's concerns. Amen...
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